tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-346234762024-03-13T13:34:19.823-05:00Fry MomentsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger776125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-56955751017735016962020-01-01T21:22:00.001-06:002020-01-01T21:26:34.978-06:00I Am Here<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I don't know why I am here. When I stopped blogging here 9 years ago, it wasn't a conscious decision. It was really a combination of things - of life getting too crazy, feeling like I had lost my voice, and getting annoyed that certain people in my life were spying on me by reading my blog, and then confronting me on issues that had nothing to do with them. I felt I had to censor everything, and it defeated the purpose of having this space in the first place.<br />
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So here we are 9 years later, and something made me open this up tonight. The blog theme was all outdated, things were wonky, and in my effort to fix the major issues all my landscape photos rotated. Ah well...it is what it is. I don't think I can go back through the 700+ posts and fix all the photos at this point, so it will live on in infamy wonky, just like my thoughts.<br />
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A lot has changed in the last nine years. The boys are growing up so quickly. Kiddo is wickedly talented and smart, but alas, a teenager, so he hides in his room most of the day. Port is 11 and full of fire and emotion and still one of the most fascinating kids ever. The hubby is still doing his thing, only now in a finished out shed in the backyard, so we hardly see him. My business grew and went crazy for a while, and then matured and refined and is once again about to evolve.<br />
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I am still just as nuts as I was before, but now with a bit more understanding and sophistication...lol I shouldn't say that - I'm not nuts, but I do have a different way of thinking from most people. I am learning to embrace it, to enhance it, to develop it. My hope is that in doing so I can experience a higher level of living, enlightenment, and understanding.<br />
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I want my voice back. As I read through the last 9 months or so of posts here, I was shocked at how much I enjoyed reading, but also of how much I had forgotten. What an amazing gift to be able to look back at the times when the boys were little, and remember the daily struggles and triumphs. It saddens me to think about the 9 years I will miss that I did not document.<br />
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Thankfully Facebook has some record of the last 9 years, and I do print out my fb posts every year and make them into a book. But the depth and detail isn't there like it is here.<br />
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So after reading for about an hour, I clicked on "new post"<br />
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And here we are.<br />
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Will I be back? That is something I can't answer yet. But, this year (2020) is going to be a BIG year. I've been living in survival mode for a while, persevering and just trying to hold on. This year, well, this year will be a TRANSFORMATION. I don't know what all that means yet, but I know it to be true. A couple of months ago, in prayer, I was overwhelmed with the message that "everything will be different", and from that moment on things did start changing. I hope to be able to share and document some of those things here.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-74700476166987717192011-12-02T23:07:00.000-06:002011-12-02T23:07:22.130-06:00One Sweet Love<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So for the past few days I have been elbow deep in dough, sugar and cinnamon. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-NRKsx2vOuvw/TtmhUKA9SRI/AAAAAAAADgM/iqLGbwR6EY4/s640/blogger-image--1745537329.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-NRKsx2vOuvw/TtmhUKA9SRI/AAAAAAAADgM/iqLGbwR6EY4/s640/blogger-image--1745537329.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-Nj-5DCI-JrI/TtmhXdoP1DI/AAAAAAAADgk/lTXzFBvu-M4/s640/blogger-image-696220877.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-Nj-5DCI-JrI/TtmhXdoP1DI/AAAAAAAADgk/lTXzFBvu-M4/s640/blogger-image-696220877.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I have made 5 full pans of maple iced cinnamon rolls and 6 pans of apple cinnamon rolls. The 6' table is in the middle of my kitchen and will probably remain there until just before Christmas. I am already tired of walking around it, but it really makes things so much easier, especially rolling out the dough for these babies. Look how pretty that is!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-XyOyxhy3okE/TtmhTUOlliI/AAAAAAAADgE/HUpJVFFGBBo/s640/blogger-image--1223531107.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-XyOyxhy3okE/TtmhTUOlliI/AAAAAAAADgE/HUpJVFFGBBo/s640/blogger-image--1223531107.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Like a flower. ;) The pan above got a little ambitious on me and tried to escape it's confines so I had to go ahead and bake it this evening. Now I will have to fight to stay out of it, especially since there is no one else around to eat it right now. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-3qKI5ha-G0M/TtmkbCHtxeI/AAAAAAAADgs/7xCWEy_x4gw/s640/blogger-image-558465803.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-3qKI5ha-G0M/TtmkbCHtxeI/AAAAAAAADgs/7xCWEy_x4gw/s640/blogger-image-558465803.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I mean, how can you resist that?!?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Until,</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">D :)</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-4514847564216877312011-11-30T22:49:00.000-06:002011-11-30T22:49:05.335-06:00Sugar Cane | NaBloPoMo day 30<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/--zODSk1b9pc/Ttb-GgJiMvI/AAAAAAAADf0/IzGbbEQ2MbQ/s640/blogger-image-1533254207.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/--zODSk1b9pc/Ttb-GgJiMvI/AAAAAAAADf0/IzGbbEQ2MbQ/s640/blogger-image-1533254207.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I scalded the milk, oil and sugar this morning, and then later added yeast, flour, and various other ingredients and created the most magnificent dough. After letting it rise for a couple of hours I pulled the 6' long folding table out of the garage, scrubbed it down and set it up in the middle of my kitchen. It's that time of year again! Time to make the cinnamon rolls!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">The plan this evening was to roll out the dough and get a few pans made and ready to freeze, but my Kiddo had other ideas. He's been bugging me for a couple of weeks now for a new pillow. His current one is pretty lumpy and worn - we've had to wash it so much because of nose bleeds and allergies - the filling is shot. So tonight I made the trek to Target to get him a new pillow. I also picked up one of those allergy covers; it's supposed to be water proof and keep out all the allergen stuff. I put it on the new pillow and man, those things are noisy! But I thought I would give it a shot anyway and so I put the pillow case on over it and brought it to the kids' room, shortly after bed time. Kiddo rejected it in less than a minute, coming out of his room to ask for his old pillow back. So I took off the allergy cover and let him try it again and a couple minutes later he said he still wanted his old pillow. I gave him the old one back - by this time the little one was complaining about his pillow too (copycat!) so I gave him the new one. I laid them both back down and left them to go to sleep. I went into the kitchen to prepare to roll out my dough.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Five minutes later, I hear bickering coming from their room so I went in to see what was going on. Kiddo was standing in front of Port's bed and he had taken the cover off the new pillow and put Port's pillow back on his bed. I asked him what he was doing and he said he wanted to put two pillows in one case. And he wanted the pillow back.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I told him no, he couldn't have it back and he couldn't put two pillows in one case. He asked about stacking two pillows on top of each other so I gave him Port's old pillow and he pitched a fit. I told him to go to sleep and left him in his room. He cried and cried - Hubby and I both went in there to tell him to calm down and go to sleep. About 10 minutes later he came out of his room, marched up to me in the kitchen with his little hands all balled up into fists and he told me that he was going to "fuss and cry all night long if I didn't give him that pillow back!!"</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">We made him go back to bed - it's a good thing we both have a sense of humor. But 10 minutes later he was in there coughing pretty much non-stop. I brought him some water and when I walked in I discovered he was laying on the floor. I asked him why and he said he refused to sleep in his bed. *shakes head* Oh the DRAMA! I made him get in bed and once again I left. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">10 minutes later he was still coughing, so I brought him a cough drop. When I left his room, I noticed that I had stepped over a piece of paper on the floor in the hallway just in front of his door. Thinking it was some random drawing that had some how made it's way to the hallway, I picked it up to throw it away. But there was some writing on it...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">"Dear Mom, </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Im stupid! Remember when I refused the pillow</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Youll hate me by now.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><3 Kiddo Fry"</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So, the teen years are going to be smooth sailing, right?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">This morning Port was sleeping soundly way past his normal wake up time when the cat snuck in the room and tried to claim the pillow he was sleeping on. I heard Port fussing and walked in to find him up on all fours in the bed, grunting and growling at the cat while he was still in a half asleep state. He was not a happy guy. I can say I wasn't too happy either - darn cat. You just don't wake a sleeping monster; doesn't she know that??</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Later on this morning I heard him happily laughing and squawking (yes, he squawks, and grunts and growls - so what of it?) and I came in to find he had set up this dinosaur invasion on the cat. She was not amused and she told me so by swishing her tail rapidly when I looked at her. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I am feeling better today - who ever it was that said a prayer for me, thank you. I felt it, and it worked. Some good things happened today and I really, really needed it. I am so thankful for His grace.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Until,</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">D :)</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-52315609700842646852011-11-28T23:35:00.000-06:002011-11-28T23:35:55.744-06:00The Heart of Life | NaBloPoMo day 28I am feeling discouraged today, and hormonal, and a little too....<i>real </i>for my liking. I feel like I am running 90 miles an hour, working waaaay too hard and spinning my wheels, and at the same time sitting here doing nothing, waiting on something to happen. I am trying to trust, trust, trust when all my being is telling me to just take over and get something done. Make things happen. It feels like the more I try, the less I accomplish. The more I put into my house, the messier it gets. The more I put into my business, the less business I get. I feel a tremendous amount of weight on my shoulders.<br />
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But I have to have faith. I have to trust. I have to let go and not worry. This is what I am commanded to do, and this is what I strive for. But the day to day, today, is just wearing me down.<br />
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Yesterday I was having a hard time with the kiddos and I had been reduced to yelling. I hate getting like that; sometimes it seems like the only thing that gets the boys to do anything around here. At one point, after particularly upsetting Port, he came to me and asked to be picked up. He is still my little cuddly guy. I picked him up and he got on his knees in my lap so he could look me straight in the eye and he said, <i>"Mummai, I want you to be nice to me."</i><br />
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The guilt just crushed me.<br />
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He threw his arms around my neck and gave me the biggest hugs. He hugged and hugged and hugged, and even threw in a sweet kiss or two before he snuggled down in my lap and cradled my arm. Of course, I just melted into a big ol' blob of adoration for my sweet boy and within less than a minute he had fallen asleep.<br />
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I wish I had a big lap to snuggle into when I was having a hard day. I wish that I could just ask the world to "be nice to me" and give it a hug or two and all would be better.<br />
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Until,<br />
DUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-90896286587537835972011-11-27T23:21:00.000-06:002011-11-27T23:21:13.227-06:00Throw Me A Rope | NaBloPoMo day 27<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-wfEh_qIFx4c/TtMQ16nQIGI/AAAAAAAADfk/bOjxbQj-raw/s640/blogger-image-1649253846.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-wfEh_qIFx4c/TtMQ16nQIGI/AAAAAAAADfk/bOjxbQj-raw/s640/blogger-image-1649253846.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22px;">So throw me a rope to hold me in place</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22px;">Show me a clock for counting my days down"</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22px;"><br />
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not that I ever did that in the first place. anywho.....<br />
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I have to say I am pretty proud of myself this week. I actually let. something. go. Haha! I didn't think I was capable. And it may only be temporary, but for now it feels pretty good. For the past couple of years I have been on this bizarre, mid-life crisis truth quest, and while it's been liberating and exhilarating, at the same time it has caused me a lot of stress and strife. It is a struggle to live like this, seeking truth from everything and everyone, when everything and everyone else doesn't function that way. There just isn't a lot of truth in this world. We have all been lied to and have lied about so many things for so long that the lies have become the truth. So often I find myself not knowing what to believe anymore.<br />
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So this week I was faced with deciding to stick up for what I know to be the truth, or to let it go and just let people believe what they want to and tell themselves whatever it takes to feel ok. It is hard. It is not something I like doing these days. I have very little tolerance for it right now, but after hashing it out over and over for a few days I just decided it's not worth it. So for now, I have let it go. And I hope that the effort it took to do that is worth the headache it caused me (and a couple of close friends - sorry!). It really just boils down to the fact that I have too much crazy in my own head to have to try to tame someone else's.<br />
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So anyway, now Thanksgiving is over we plow head first into the landslide to Christmas. And suddenly my totally open calendar is filled with meetings and get togethers and baking and crafting (cuz there will sadly be no buying this year) and photography sessions and seeing old friends, meeting new babies and supporting friends and family during transition. But isn't that life all the time? Why does it suddenly seem like everything is crammed into 4 short weeks?<br />
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I love this song - it's one of those I get lost in in the midst of the chaos that is constantly in my head. I can totally relate to the lyrics, and I miss those moments being on stage and having people in my spell, if only for a moment. I wish it were so easy to capture someone's attention. There are a couple of people I would absolutely love to be able to "have" for just few minutes, just to say the things I need to say.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Spotlight shining brightly </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">on my face </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I can't see a thing </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">and yet I feel you looking my way </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Empty stage </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">With nothing but this girl </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Who's singing this simple melody </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And wearing her heart on her sleeve </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And right now </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I have you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">For a moment I can tell I've got you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Cause your lips don't move </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And something is happening </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Cause your eyes tell me the truth </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I've put a spell over you </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Beauty emanates from every </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">word that you say </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And captured the deepest thoughts </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">in the purest and simplest of ways </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">But you see </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I'm not that graceful </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Like you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Nor am I as eloquent </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">But just a simple melody </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 5px;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Can change the way that you see me </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And right now </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I have you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">For a moment I can tell I've got you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Cause your lips don't move </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And something is happening </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Cause your eyes tell me the truth </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I've put a spell over you </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And all my life I've stumbled </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">But up here i am just perfect </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Perfect as I'll ever be </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I have you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">For a moment I can tell I've got you </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Cause your lips don't move </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And something is happening </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Cause your eyes tell me the truth </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I've put a spell over you</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-42039569136867096122011-11-25T23:20:00.000-06:002011-11-25T23:20:12.530-06:00In Your Eyes | NaBloPoMo day 25<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-hWfrqynoN_Y/TtBmg0338OI/AAAAAAAADfc/p4nsarv2T14/s640/blogger-image--973211208.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-hWfrqynoN_Y/TtBmg0338OI/AAAAAAAADfc/p4nsarv2T14/s640/blogger-image--973211208.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">What is it about Thanksgiving that makes us cook SO MUCH food? I swear, it must be some sort of altered genetics that have been environmentally bred into us throughout the generations. Thursday was really just like any other day; I was cooking for the same 4 people I cook for every day, and yet I made enough food to feed at least 8 people, and probably more than that. And I didn't even make the stuffed jalapenos I was planning to have for appetizers. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Ah well.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Today was spent recovering. I had so many bizarre dreams last night and I am not sure why. I think I may have been on carb overload. Today I enjoyed myself again, but starting tomorrow I am going to do a bit of a cleanse - not so much in an official way, I just need to cut waaaay back on the yeast and sugar, drink more water, and get more veggies and clean foods in for a while. My friend, Kim, is starting a 10 day juice regimen and she will be drinking only fresh made juice for that time. I am thinking about trying to juice for one meal a day and see how that works for me. I am too dependent on protein to go on an all out juice fast; I just don't think I could make it. But I am hoping the increase in veggies and fruit will supplement some imbalances I am certain I have. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">And I need to do this now because it is almost time to start making cinnamon rolls...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">How I adore your desserts!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-7jpsHvVjbkY/Ts7_VUmIfeI/AAAAAAAADe8/owr9epuH7NM/s640/blogger-image--1044551781.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="398" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-7jpsHvVjbkY/Ts7_VUmIfeI/AAAAAAAADe8/owr9epuH7NM/s400/blogger-image--1044551781.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: left;">See this tree? I picked this up in January for $10. Oh yeah, you read that right. </div><a href="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-eg1t5DbQ8_s/Ts7_W3jiiPI/AAAAAAAADfM/O51xIXjZ7lg/s640/blogger-image-1321036729.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="399" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-eg1t5DbQ8_s/Ts7_W3jiiPI/AAAAAAAADfM/O51xIXjZ7lg/s400/blogger-image-1321036729.jpg" width="400" /></a><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">It's gorgeous and I love it. We had it up and decorated in about 20 minutes. (a little too quickly for the boys! lol) It's tall and skinny, just like me. :) </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-gFvsEoYLMts/Ts7_WEhExeI/AAAAAAAADfE/J-Sp4ONESx4/s640/blogger-image-791369163.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="640" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-gFvsEoYLMts/Ts7_WEhExeI/AAAAAAAADfE/J-Sp4ONESx4/s640/blogger-image-791369163.jpg" width="356" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I hope you all have full bellies and happy hearts today and always. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Until,</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">D :)</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-214258059528078002011-11-23T22:56:00.000-06:002011-11-23T22:56:53.287-06:00Cooking By The Book | NaBloPoMo day 23<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wHLcrvXST08/Ts3J9rOwklI/AAAAAAAADe0/VCmssFZ2Cb4/s1600/IMG_1148%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wHLcrvXST08/Ts3J9rOwklI/AAAAAAAADe0/VCmssFZ2Cb4/s320/IMG_1148%255B1%255D.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Tomorrow I shall make an attempt to cook a turkey. I have only ever cooked a whole one once before, waaaaaay back when I couldn't cook anything and I was newly married, and I ended up giving myself (not anyone else) food poisoning. haha!<br />
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And now you know why, 13 years later, I am OCD about washing my hands when I am cooking.<br />
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It should be interesting - I am not entirely sure how I am going to go about it yet. But if I had to guess, I would think it might involve cream cheese and rosemary...and it will be fabulous! Though, not traditional. ;) Accompanying the meal we will have bacon wrapped, stuffed jalapenos, some sort of potato (I am thinking mashed with bacon, green onion and rosemary), fresh green beans, and an apple pie type dessert (actual recipe yet to be determined).<br />
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What are you having for Thanksgiving dinner? I wish I had time for stuffing and chicken and dumplings and broccoli rice casserole (though I may still do that) and all the traditional stuff. But I am only cooking for 4 people and I really should be practical.<br />
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Right?<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-2502778495228701502011-11-22T23:20:00.000-06:002011-11-22T23:20:30.308-06:00From Where You Are | NaBloPoMo day 22<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZbfL7_FEYtc/TsyBUOwyd8I/AAAAAAAADes/Hlf1dD9sATg/s1600/166923_2554103902278_1544364208_2560129_168971164_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZbfL7_FEYtc/TsyBUOwyd8I/AAAAAAAADes/Hlf1dD9sATg/s1600/166923_2554103902278_1544364208_2560129_168971164_n.jpg" /></a></div>No words really tonight. Our family is mourning the loss of our Uncle Don. May he rest in peace.<br />
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Until,<br />
DUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-18092590201450457452011-11-21T23:37:00.000-06:002011-11-21T23:37:20.727-06:00You're The Inspiration | NaBloPoMo day 21<i>So, you all may or may not know I am currently trying my hand at writing. I am in the process of writing one book and also mentally developing a second one. So occasionally my mental development hits inspiration and I have to spew the words out before they either 1) drive me insane, or 2) disappear, leaving me frustrated and extremely sad that the moment of pure, raw emotion was forever lost. </i><br />
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<i>The following is a piece that I wrote back in July when the words swirled around in my head to the point that I had to either write them down or check myself into the loony bin. They were that strong and that powerful and controlling. So, I put this in one of my other blogs back then, and I tonight it just felt right to bring it here...</i><br />
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When you are young you are full of emotion and instinct. There isn't much control of either and when emotions are high (which they always are) you react on instinct more than logic. It is a magical and confusing and heart breaking time, and unfortunately, more big decisions about life are made in that time that shape who you are than in any other time of life. Make one wrong choice and you can send yourself hurling down a path that you may not want 5, 10 or 15 years from then. And by the time you are an adult it is too late to go back and change your path, and you are committed to too much to not risk everything you love to make the change.<br />
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When we are young, we live in the moment. We don't think about the future in more than a big cloud in the sky sort of way. We don't yet know the details, the day to day challenges and the little things that add up to big joy and big frustration. We don't yet realize how small choices can lead to big life factors; how the "big" decisions really aren't that important and how the time that we have is so unique and special, when we are young. Living in the moment is so exciting and dramatic, and when you are in your teens drama is a way of life. We feel, we experience everything as if it were the first time (and it often is) and our senses are heightened and electric with impulse and fire. We challenge. We challenge authority, we challenge ideas and we challenge...everything.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mq2uRUPBgNA/Th89zz-hArI/AAAAAAAADYU/JExLtZ2-FEo/s1600/_MG_2938-Edit.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="640" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mq2uRUPBgNA/Th89zz-hArI/AAAAAAAADYU/JExLtZ2-FEo/s640/_MG_2938-Edit.jpg" width="425" /></a></div>When I was a teen, I often challenged the weather. My moods and feelings were altered and were reflected in the sun, the wind and the storms. I soaked up the peace that the warm sun would bring. I would sit on top of my parent's van at night and watch the stars and follow the moon. I wished on falling stars, I talked to the sky. Storms brought passion and love and sadness. They manipulated events and feelings, the held promises of a future that I never got to see. I loved the weather and I thought it held power. I would stand in the wind and stare it down as if I could control it. I pleaded with the wind and the thunder and the stars to send me signs and answers to my troubles. And somewhere between then and now, I stopped listening and I stopped challenging. Now, thunder and wind sends me running for shelter and makes me worry for my children. I don't want to get wet in the rain and I certainly don't like driving in it or dealing with the mud the dog tracks in the house afterward. Storms lost their passion and their beauty and became little more than a nusiance.<br />
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I have been dealing with some things. Stress and emotions that I can't control any longer have forced me into a time of much reflection and deep thought. And suddenly I am looking to the outdoors and the solace of the quiet that it can sometimes provide; that quiet away from the distractions of electronics and children and things that make noise allows me to ponder the things that trouble me, or quiet my head for a moment of peace. I enjoy being in my garden, sometimes with music in my ears, sometimes not, and just letting my mind run where it wants to. I enjoy that time of living in the moment and letting raw feelings take over.<br />
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A couple of weeks ago I was in my garden and as I was finishing up my tasks a storm began to blow in. Normally I would have hurried into the house but for once, I felt I needed to stay. The wind kicked up and the sky turned pink and I stood there in the middle of my yard, face into the wind. I challenged it to blow on me, to knock me over. And as my hair whipped around my head and my eyes filled with tears from the debris blowing in and the emotion I was feeling, I felt my spirit awaken with an energy I haven't felt in many years.<br />
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When I come home late at night now, I pause for a moment to look at the sky. And that child in me is still there, pleading to the stars for answers. I have no more power now to interpret them than I did then, and I feel my heart breaking in the silence just the same as before. And yet I linger, thinking one more moment, one more glance to the heavens will be enough.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-40321176765329933382011-11-20T23:28:00.000-06:002011-11-20T23:28:44.016-06:00The Little Things | NaBloPoMo day 20<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-_2LCsBlV-x8/TsnbUrYByCI/AAAAAAAADek/pL1iBFG6QtY/s1600/IMG_1145%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-_2LCsBlV-x8/TsnbUrYByCI/AAAAAAAADek/pL1iBFG6QtY/s400/IMG_1145%255B1%255D.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>I took my monkeys on a date tonight. It's been a lazy day; I had a headache for most of it and I just didn't feel like cooking tonight. Daddy was out on a photo shoot and so since it was just me and the boys, I thought we'd do something fun. They were so good and totally enjoyed the restaurant and all the fun decor; I was really surprised. And now I know I can go back there, get them a big bowl of chips, a stack of tortillas and some re-fried beans and they will be happy little campers. Best of all, we can all eat on the cheap! Woot!<br />
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I am looking forward to this week and having Kiddo home from school. We'll have one of his friends hanging with us most of the week, so the boys will have a playmate to keep them occupied. Now I just have to think of a couple of well placed activities to keep them all from getting bored. I think it will be fun!<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-62780165528791000182011-11-19T22:19:00.000-06:002011-11-19T22:19:05.394-06:00Back To You | NaBloPoMo day 19<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n6hYLQs_-jE/TshySlITs6I/AAAAAAAADec/XQk-ewmWTlo/s1600/IMG_0238%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n6hYLQs_-jE/TshySlITs6I/AAAAAAAADec/XQk-ewmWTlo/s400/IMG_0238%255B1%255D.jpg" width="300" /></a></div>Well if I thought I was tired yesterday, then I am downright exhausted today. I so did not want to get up when my alarm went off this morning - I was sleeping so well. :(<br />
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I still had some crazy dreams though.<br />
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I had a photo session today for a 2 year old - man, those littles are tough! She was super cute, but I am pretty sure that by the end of the session we (her parents included) were all worn out.<br />
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And I just haven't recovered. So, I am making this a short one tonight.<br />
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If you are travelling this coming week for the holiday, I wish you safe travels. I am still trying to figure out what we are going to do for Thanksgiving. We won't be going anywhere, but I still have to cook something, and I don't want to treat it just like any other day...or do I?<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-46146796778514458892011-11-18T22:12:00.000-06:002011-11-18T22:12:17.550-06:00A Thousand Miles | NaBloPoMo day 18<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5aY1nxUg0aM/TscnArEwWmI/AAAAAAAADeU/uofhPoXCMxw/s1600/IMG_1139%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5aY1nxUg0aM/TscnArEwWmI/AAAAAAAADeU/uofhPoXCMxw/s400/IMG_1139%255B1%255D.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Sooooo, this is what I see when I look in the mirror today. Staying up till 3am did a number on me. ;-) I desperately need some beauty sleep. I had a lot I needed to get done today but I am just too tired to actually do any of it. I took a shower in lieu of a nap this afternoon and while it did perk me up briefly, I still sat at the computer and stared at a blank screen for an hour. *sigh* It was worth it though. I had so much fun last night.<br />
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Random thoughts...gonna let the crazy hang out a little. lol Forgive me, it happens when I am tired...<br />
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Ever feel like you are waiting on something, and you know it's important, but you really have NO IDEA what it is, or what to look for? And you know you will know it when it happens, but yet, you don't know what it is going to be?<br />
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I am waiting, waiting, waiting. And I don't know why. Whatever it is I am waiting for, when I think about it (of course, in a general sense), my heart aches, my head pounds and my my eyes feel that fullness that comes just before I cry. Like if whatever it was happened, it would be such a relief and a release and a joy, and it would be scary and life altering and...REAL. And I long for it; I try to will it to happen - ridiculous, really.<br />
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I can't seem to move on past the waiting, the holding pattern, the holding my breath every time I turn a corner. My dreams are getting more and more strange. I am dreaming of people I don't ever dream about, places I had long forgotten, and of worlds that don't exist. Perhaps that is normal for some people, but my dreams, for the most part, have pattern and some predictability. With the exception of every now and then, I usually dream of the same people and places. But lately, man, they have become really strange.<br />
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I am just too much in my head right now I guess.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-69690184685173175392011-11-17T22:29:00.002-06:002011-11-18T22:13:25.392-06:00Monster Mash | NaBloPoMo day 17Hanging with the girls tonight, posting with my phone... Here are some photos of what we are up to. :)<br />
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Hope you are having a fantastic Thursday!<br />
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Until,<br />
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Diving over to a friend's house today, I noticed that the majority of the property on one particular street I drive regularly is for sale. The old homesteads, old businesses and empty lots are all for sale, most likely to be bought by some retail corporation so a new shopping facility can go in. All of it is zoned for commercial use now, so I am sure in the next 5-10 year we will be surrounded by places to shop.<br />
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Sprinkled in between all of these older properties are new subdivisions. I was driving along and looking at the new houses, all grand and modern. But what I found myself doing, more often than not, was looking even harder at the old properties. The old houses - and ooh that one has a detached garage or an old barn and that one has an old horse stable...I was more intrigued and "dreaming about buying" the older properties that had so much more character. Those are the types of property I can work with! I can see myself holding photo sessions in the old barns, building a studio in the huge workshops and working the land so that I can make my very own little photography oasis.<br />
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I think my heart will always long for the old farm house on the big chunk of land that has more character than any custom built home could ever have. New and modern and subdivided is nice, neat and for the most part, worry free, but I guess I am just more of a country girl.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-54467512587305731382011-11-15T23:04:00.000-06:002011-11-15T23:04:14.884-06:00Bubbly Toes | NaBloPoMo day 15<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rAJ2eool2Cc/TsNBLaps7cI/AAAAAAAADdE/hYlLrtJtIXU/s1600/IMG_1117%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rAJ2eool2Cc/TsNBLaps7cI/AAAAAAAADdE/hYlLrtJtIXU/s400/IMG_1117%255B1%255D.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">This is a beautiful site. Little Port was up at 5am this morning, SCREAMING because his brother got up to go to the bathroom and told him he couldn't come out of the room. And then Kiddo proceeded to leave the door open - Port was so dutiful standing in the doorway, but it upset him so much (he still likes to accompany everyone to the bathroom) he decided to wake everyone up with his wails. So needless to say he was a cranky monster by noon today. It was raining and dreary out all morning so when things cleared up a bit around 1pm, I decided to make an attempt at some grocery shopping. He promptly fell asleep about a block from the store. So, I did what any good mom would do and I drove to Sonic instead for a beverage and some quality Bejeweled time. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I am at the top of my leader board if that tells you how long I sat there playing... ;)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I brought him home and he woke for about half a second before falling over into this position on the couch. He slept like this for about an hour. It makes my arm tingle just looking at it. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I heard this line in a song tonight when I finally did make it to the grocery store (fyi, grocery shopping on Tuesday night is not recommended, at least not at my store, because they are out of everything and trying to restock before the Wednesday sales go into effect). Anyway, the lyrics: </div><blockquote class="tr_bq"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"When you move like a jellyfish, rhythm don't mean nothing. You go with the flow. You don't stop."</span></blockquote>I've been feeling like a jellyfish lately - absolutely no rhyme or rhythm to my life right now; just drifting along, taking it day by day. Some days are great, some not so much, and the water is still murky. I am so ready to plant my feet on something solid. Or land on the shore...or something.<br />
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...not that jellyfish have feet... oh you know what I mean.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-16907157780780309642011-11-14T22:40:00.000-06:002011-11-14T22:40:05.516-06:00Candy Girl | NaBloPoMo day 14<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BDzFrM2xzfU/TsHsCqkKqmI/AAAAAAAADc8/aPRap3eZivw/s1600/chocolate.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BDzFrM2xzfU/TsHsCqkKqmI/AAAAAAAADc8/aPRap3eZivw/s400/chocolate.JPG" width="298" /></a></div>Some things are bigger in Texas. Most things are even bigger in random truck stops in the middle of nowhere in Texas.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-23317180620451939922011-11-13T22:09:00.000-06:002011-11-13T22:09:23.989-06:00Miss You | NaBloPoMo day 13After a weekend of hotel bliss (a bed to myself with extra fluffy pillows and no one to wake me with requests for cereal and "playing trains"? yes, please!) we came home today with tired minds but many accomplishments. After dropping Kim off at her home, I drove to mine. Hubby had spent the weekend finally teaching Kiddo how to ride a bike and when I drove up they were practicing in the driveway. Port was riding his tricycle around in circles with his brother, and when he saw me pull up his little face broke into a huge grin. He hopped off his bike, and in one of those totally unreal sappy tv commercial moments he ran to me at full speed, arms wide open, screaming "Mummai! Mummai!". I jumped out of the car and ran toward him and when we met I scooped him into my arms and he threw his arms around me and buried his face in my neck. He was laughing and crying and so excited to see me - and I realized how much I had missed him. He is such a special little guy. Kiddo was too busy trying to show off his new bike skills that he didn't really greet me before he wanted me to watch him ride. I enjoyed spending some time with everyone in the driveway - the weather was perfect.<br />
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It was so good to get away. I do hope I have more opportunities to do it again in the future, but, today it feels great to be home.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-77935991889454725242011-11-12T23:44:00.000-06:002011-11-12T23:44:00.444-06:00Inspire Me | NaBloPoMo day 12<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VDlOLD-vPpE/Tr9TfY2cozI/AAAAAAAADc0/C_UJPmZEiUw/s1600/IMG_1112%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VDlOLD-vPpE/Tr9TfY2cozI/AAAAAAAADc0/C_UJPmZEiUw/s320/IMG_1112%255B1%255D.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Inspiration comes at the oddest times. I've been sitting here all day in a hotel room working on my business plan for the upcoming year, and so much has been accomplished. I have a good plan (almost complete!), new products, a totally new pricing structure and a huge head ache. Lol! I haven't thought this hard and for this long in a looooong time. My head hurts. Have I said that already?<br />
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Just as we were starting to wrap things up for the evening, my incredibly intelligent friend and co-planner/assistant/task master, Kim, had a brilliant idea. And as we talked through it, it became even better. I love it when an idea unfolds into a beautiful plan! I can't wait to see if it works.<br />
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I am so proud of what we've accomplished today and so thankful for the opportunity to take the time to do this. It has been a great weekend so far.<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-54219591816576552222011-11-11T23:51:00.000-06:002011-11-11T23:51:01.569-06:00Backroads | NaBloPoMo day 11<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Rfl5Bu8XXA0/Tr36Z4f9kVI/AAAAAAAADcs/bHJzX8V0WZc/s1600/IMG_0962%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Rfl5Bu8XXA0/Tr36Z4f9kVI/AAAAAAAADcs/bHJzX8V0WZc/s320/IMG_0962%255B1%255D.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>I love driving. I have always enjoyed getting in the car, cranking up the radio and driving the back roads to my destination. The freeway holds it's own appeal - fast and no fuss, but the back roads, the back roads offer so much more when you have the time to spare.<br />
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Back roads provide a glimpse into the lives of the people who love nearby. I love seeing the old houses, cars and interesting things that people collect. I love going through the old towns that have been long forgotten; I love seeing the picture-book perfect barns and dilapidated old houses. I love the rows and rows and rows of trees and every twist, turn, rise and fall of the pavement.<br />
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Tonight I had the pleasure of travelling back roads with my friend, Kim. I so enjoy traveling with good friends, and the always incredible conversations that come from being trapped in a small space. We are spending the weekend hiding out in a hotel in San Antonio so I can do some work on my business. I needed the time away from all the distractions of home so I could concentrate and focus on the lofty goals I have set for myself. I am hoping that in the short time that we have here we can be productive.<br />
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Thankfully, the hotel does not seem to have Food Network on the cable provider. ;-) Shew!<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-68209313968263758892011-11-10T23:18:00.000-06:002011-11-10T23:18:21.771-06:00Real World | NaBloPoMo day 10Random thoughts...<div><br />
</div><div>This world that we live in is amazing. It's bright, it's beautiful, it's mysterious and ever changing. It has so many amazing and wonderful features, 99% of them I will never see. And people - people are even more fascinating and wonderful. The human mind is something that, even with all of our vast technology and endless study, will never be completely figured out. <div><br />
</div><div>I am fascinated by behavior. I WISH, oh how I wish, I could figure people out. </div><div><br />
</div><div>We are all here together on this beautiful planet with these fascinating minds and we are just screwing it all up. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I was chatting with a friend today and we were talking about people we thought were "good" and those that were not so good, and it occurred to me that no one really knows 100% how another person is - what is truly in their heart. We only let people see what we want them to see. For most, we try to only show the good parts, the accomplishments and the kindness. Others gain satisfaction sharing weaknesses and faults. But in most cases, there is more to someone's true personality and heart than what they ever show.</div><div><br />
</div><div>So where, in all of this, is the reality? There really is no reality anymore. Heck, even reality TV isn't "real". Young rock star wannabes put "amateur" videos on YouTube that are made to look like they are just hanging out in their living room playing the guitar and singing to the camera. But if you look closely, you will notice that there are several camera angles throughout the song and there is no background noise at all - hmm, could they perhaps have recorded in a studio??</div><div><br />
</div><div>The point is - there is very little these days that is completely raw, real, or unscripted. And we, as friends and family and acquaintances, are just as scripted and fake with each other. We censor ourselves, we put on airs, we proclaim innocence while hiding what we really do, we say we are one way when we are the other. We scold those that don't "do right" as we do the same wrongs. There is no reality. Social media perpetuates this by providing us with check boxes and categories to define who we are (or who we want people to think we are) on our profile. It provides a platform for us to say things that we don't have to actually subscribe to or even believe in, but people *think* we do because we trust that what is said (and our interpretation of it) is the truth. </div><div><br />
</div><div>What frustrates me sometimes more than anything is that when I see someone being fake, there really is nothing that can be done about it. As we become more electronically social, we become less personable and calling someone out on bad behavior or telling someone how you really feel is quickly becoming a lost art. People get offended and for some reason many feel we are no longer allowed to point out when someone exhibits bad behavior. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I try to be as real as I can. I am overly honest to a fault, but I still have things that I don't talk about. I am by no means a saint, either. But I just wish more people would be real and stop trying to be someone they clearly are not. Be real. If you don't have anything interesting or compelling or valuable to say, don't say anything - or better yet, say something if you feel you need to but be REAL. Be honest. Be boring. It's OK. Truly. I am tired of trying to sift through all the smoke and mirrors to find the truth. </div></div><div><br />
</div><div>Until,</div><div>D </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-78000844742408919942011-11-09T22:41:00.000-06:002011-11-09T22:41:07.490-06:00Water Of Love | NaBloPoMo day 9<iframe allowtransparency="true" frameborder="0" height="250" src="http://files.bannersnack.com/iframe/embed.html?hash=82e50ff54f6a2ff2f392dff6b3542318&bgcolor=%233D3D3D&alt=screenshot&wmode=window&t=1320686166" width="250"></iframe><br />
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Did you know that I co-host a <a href="http://www.musingmommies.com/" target="_blank">weekly podcast</a>? Well, I do! We have been podcasting for 2 years now and I truly enjoy it. For those of you who don't know what a podcast is, I guess the best way to describe it is this. It is like a radio show (ours is about an hour and comes out weekly) that is pre-recorded and can be found on the internet. The recordings of our show can be accessed on <a href="http://www.musingmommies.com/" target="_blank">our site</a>, on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/musingmommies" target="_blank">Facebook</a> or on iTunes.<br />
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On the show we talk about a lot of different things. We interview moms like us, moms <i>not </i>like us, entrepreneurs, authors, business owners, inventors, dads, and many other interesting people. We have shows about daily life, hot topics, cooking, controversial ideas, lifestyle and many more. Our show is fun! And the great thing about it is that Kim and I can give our honest opinion about the things we love and the things we don't love.<br />
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About a month ago, in my endless quest to find a dishwasher detergent that actually worked, I came across an AMAZING product called <a href="http://www.lemishine.com/" target="_blank">Lemi Shine</a>. And without going into boring detail about it, let me just say that the Lemi Shine not only completely revitalized my dishes (I know, it sounds impossible, but everything looks like NEW) but it SAVED my dishwasher. I was honestly thinking we would have to replace it soon, and now it looks and cleans like brand new. So I was over-the-moon excited about Lemi Shine and I mentioned it on our podcast.<br />
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Well, through the awesomeness that is Google Alerts, the CMO at Lemi Shine found out about our podcast and within a day he had contacted us and within a couple of weeks we got to <a href="http://musingmommies.com/2011/10/25/musing-mommies-podcast-episode-127-an-interview-with-dustin-bryson-from-lemi-shine/" target="_blank">interview him on the show</a>! BUT, that is not even the best part - the BEST part about it all is that not only is Lemi Shine an amazing, natural, environmentally friendly product that actually works, the company that makes Lemi Shine is a FANTASTIC, honest, trustworthy, earth conscious, and generous organization of great people. It was not only a joy to interview Dustin (he is a <a href="http://www.dustinbryson.com/" target="_blank">super fun and interesting guy</a> in his own right), but it was an honor to be able to speak with and help promote such an amazing company. And the reason I am telling you all of this is because Lemi Shine is doing an AMAZING thing right now in partnership with <a href="http://projects.lemishine.com/#give" target="_blank">Living Water International</a>. Now through December 31st, Lemi Shine is matching donations dollar for dollar up to $50,000 to help provide clean water to children in Ethiopia.<br />
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Please, I beg of you to click that beautiful blue button above or the one in my right sidebar, take a look at this project and give what you can. Even a small amount can make a<b> life saving</b> difference. And with this amazing program, your donation, no matter how small, is DOUBLED. Less than $10 will provide clean water, life SAVING water, to a child. The small sacrifice of that $4 latte or your $2 sonic drink for one day will save a life!<br />
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Until,<br />
D :)<br />
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PS. If you would like to leave a comment for me below (and make me soooo happy!) and you found this post through Networked Blogs on Facebook, you have to click the x in the circle at the top right of the page so that your browser goes directly to my blog. It's some sort of programming glitch that I can't seem to fix, but once you do that the comment button should work perfectly. TY! <3Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34623476.post-1059612583037528322011-11-08T23:49:00.000-06:002011-11-08T23:49:10.973-06:00Stop and Stare | NaBloPoMo day 8<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FGKocOsy9Bw/TroOGVv-sAI/AAAAAAAADck/u5bzRIaYGAw/s1600/IMG_1110%255B1%255D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FGKocOsy9Bw/TroOGVv-sAI/AAAAAAAADck/u5bzRIaYGAw/s400/IMG_1110%255B1%255D.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I don't think God ever intended for an apple to be that big. Holy moly!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I will be getting this post in for NaBloPoMo just in under the wire. Port was feeling better today, but still a little fussy every time he ate. He would cry out and grab his tummy but then deny that it hurt him. He's such a tough little dude. I am so thankful he is feeling better though.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">This being November, the month of the all important of Thanksgiving, I have been thinking a lot about the things I am thankful for. Many of my Facebook friends are participating in the 30 Days of Thankful thing where you post something each day that you are thankful for. I have some weird, irrational feelings about posts like that on Facebook so I don't tend to participate (long story, for another time I suppose), but I have enjoyed seeing what everyone is thankful for. Most people make it sappy and meaningful, but some have fun with it too and as sure to mention their thankfulness for things like coffee. ;) (now those are the posts I can support! lol) </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I am thankful for many things, despite this sucky year and all that has happened. I have many blessings. I also have many hardships, but I am even thankful for them in a way because they allow me to shine through them. They allow me to really see what God is doing in my life and they humble me on a daily basis. One of my fb friends, Lori, posted this today: </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br />
</span></div><blockquote class="tr_bq"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.</span></span></blockquote>I am so thankful that God uses the people in my life to show me His grace and to remind me of His love. I could not have made it through these last few months without His power, and so I intend to "boast all the more gladly about my weakness" so that I may glorify Him.<br />
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D :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0